CONTROL: Although you and your spouse have your own lawyer, both of you are actively involved in shaping the settlement with the assistance of your lawyers, and other professionals you may retain as part of your collaborative team. LESS STRESS: Removing the anxiety that occurs from court proceedings helps you deal with the grief and loss of divorce while moving forward to plan your future, and that of your family. You can focus on finding positive solutions which may result in a win-win situation for you, your spouse, and your children. SETTLEMENT: Every family is unique and every family deserves a unique solution to the issues raised in a divorce. Collaborative law produces final agreements that are frequently more detailed and complete than any order a judge would issue following a contested and even uncontested court proceeding. A BETTER TRANSITION TO YOUR FUTURE: By reducing stress, working cooperatively, and treating each other with respect, you and your spouse are laying the groundwork for your future as parents, or even friends.